Asked to write this piece about my experience with dating as a lesbian in India, my first reaction was ‘how is any different from heterosexual dating?’ After all,
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#DelhiPride: The Silent B In LGBT
A month ago, Delhi organised an LGBTQIA Pride parade. A friend of mine was involved. On Twitter, he ranted about how journalists were calling him to ask for numbers of people who are gay or lesbian or transgender.
#DelhiPride: A Letter To My Ex: You Raped Me, I Forgive You
You didn’t expect this, did you? Well, neither did I till about ten months ago. I had so wonderfully repressed the cold hard facts of that evening;
In A World Filled With Anxious People, Fredrick Backman Calls For Compassion
Fredrick Backman’s latest novel Anxious People’s story unfolds within an apartment, where our failed thief takes hostage a real-estate agent and his clients. Lamenting his failure, the robber explains to his hostages, “I’m having quite a complicated day here!” And, so are they.
The Emancipation Of A Heavy and Weighted Heart In A Pandemic
2020 was the year I woke up to the possibility of being both fat and bald. I had the gumption to be only one of those. My PCOS was left unattended for far too long, and she was finally making me choose.
This essay isn’t a celebration of the 17 kgs I managed to plead out of my body. It isn’t a watered-down version of Chicken Soup for the Fat and Hurting Soul or another fat person inspiring you, notwithstanding their weight. I am not walking on-set, a months-old photo of me juxtaposed unto the screen, emphatically telling you that if I can, you can.
Alankrita Shrivastav Reimagines Feminist Films In Dolly, Kitty, Aur Chamakte Sitare:
Dolly Kitty Aur Chamakte Taare received tepid reviews in the mainstream media. However, for a wayward viewer like me, the film was reminiscent of the eloquent lives of women I know. People whose stories are not speckled with grandeur, but are of inadvertence. Women who are making space for themselves inch by inch. Like my mother, my aunt, a schoolfriend from my hometown. Lives into which I only have a voyeuristic lens. Stories not of grand struggles, or taking feminist stands, but of omniscient living, any act of desire is transgression.
BEING ASEXUAL IN A SEXUALISED WORLD
That I was asexual was not an a-ha! moment for me. If I were asked – and I have been –
Why We Need a Feminist Retelling of Hindu Mythology
Hindu mythology is bereft of a feminist lens. Fables like Ramayana and Mahabharata are passed down for centuries as the literal Words of Gods, teaching men how to live a good life. But, what about women?
Drag in Quarantine: A Photo Essay
Drag in Quarantine is essential. Why so, you ask?
Queer people live half of their life in closets,
DragVanti: India’s First Virtual Space for Drag
“Drag Vanti”, an online virtual space for desi drag queens, kings and performers, launched on June 9th.
The Masturbation Diary You Want To Keep
A diary to record your daily masturbation, and keep tabs on what really gives you the MOST pleasure.
How to be a Man: A coming of age story about a boy, mistakenly born female
Pinky to Pinkesh, the journey has hardly been easy. Convincing family, paying for numerous surgeries, and becoming the sole breadwinner at home,
Queer Expressions: Activism Through Classical Dance
India’s LGBTQI community is adapting classical dance forms to give themselves a voice in dance.
Case in point: a Bharatanatyam performance depicting a lesbian coming out story that’s been making rounds on social media.