2020 was the year I woke up to the possibility of being both fat and bald. I had the gumption to be only one of those. My PCOS was left unattended for far too long, and she was finally making me choose.
This essay isn’t a celebration of the 17 kgs I managed to plead out of my body. It isn’t a watered-down version of Chicken Soup for the Fat and Hurting Soul or another fat person inspiring you, notwithstanding their weight. I am not walking on-set, a months-old photo of me juxtaposed unto the screen, emphatically telling you that if I can, you can.
One Year Since CAA-NRC Protests: What I Learned, What It Meant For My Activism
It’s been a year since multiple cities across India protested against the CAA and NRC, a year since a lot of us pierced through our bubbles of privilege and confronted the spectacle of liberal activism, and how it would manifest.
How Parenting Changed my Equation with Food
I was a one-pot meal person. Things changed, though, after marriage and parenthood. Food became a lot of things besides a means of sustenance. It became a means of bonding, a reason for earning gratitude, an outlet for creative experimentation. And many a time it even led to exasperation and boredom.
BEING ASEXUAL IN A SEXUALISED WORLD
That I was asexual was not an a-ha! moment for me. If I were asked – and I have been –
The Joy Of Sharing Food
I obsessively scroll through old videos and photos on my phone. Instagram’s stories archive feature is a torture device that repeatedly drives home how far from average the past seven months have been.
India’s Disposable ‘Daughters’, What the Hathras Case Tells Us About Caste
The Hathras rape IS a caste-based sexual violence committed by upper-caste men in order to humiliate an entire community. The manner in which the UP and Central government failed to take care of this young life is also rooted in the caste-system.